Earlier today, Nollywood actress Tonto Dikeh broke the Internet with pictures and videos of her dressed and made up like a man to represent her son King on his school’s Father’s Day celebration.
Tonto Dikeh and her husband Churchhill have been separated for a while following his alleged cheating and domestic violence against Tonto Dikeh. The couple were in a messy drama on social media when the news of their split made rounds.
Today, Tonto filled in as a father for her son dressed and made up to look just like a man. After Tonto shared the video and photos, her husband Oladunni Churchhill shared a post saying Tonto is only playing victims to a circumstance she created. He further went on to call Tonto a liar saying its cruel and unfair for her to play victim.
“It’s cruel and it’s unfair. You are lying to yourself because you seek comfort. Well comfort is overrated. You are lying to yourself because you are scared of the unknown. But you must stop. To continue lying will eat away at your soul, causing you untold amounts of future pain.
A lie is something that you make yourself believe in order to make life a little easier. A lie is a paradigm under which you operate to avoid pain. A lie will destroy you, inside and out. A lie is something you want to believe because to consider the opposite would hurt your ego.
Sometimes the difference between a lie and the truth can be subtle. Sometimes your brain will try to “logically” trick you into believing a lie. I cannot give you a definitive guide on how to differentiate between the two; I am not you and I do not understand your specific circumstances, motivations, and desires. I can, however, give you some tips to guide you to make decisions that will serve you well. DM me for guidelines”